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Amivoix. Relationship library, tools and guides for couples.

What's really
going on between
the two of you.

Amivoix is a home for couples. A free library on the problems couples actually run into, a small store of tools for the two of you, and the Two Voices quiz: you each answer in private, and it reads the pattern between you from what you both said.

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01The libraryFree reading, by problem02The storeTools for the two of you03The quizNew. For two people
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The Two Voices Relationship Quiz

You each answer alone. Then you both see the pattern you're in.

A lot of what happens between two people runs on patterns neither of them can see from the inside. This shows you yours.

Free, once you've both finished

  • The pattern you're both inside
  • Where your answers split, and where they match
  • Something you're good at together
  • Two things about you, for your eyes only
Start the quiz

Free10 to 15 minutes eachYour partner never sees your answers

  1. 1

    You answer on your own

    About 10 to 15 minutes, on your phone.

  2. 2

    Your partner gets a link

    They answer theirs whenever they're ready. Neither of you sees the other's.

  3. 3

    You both see the pattern

    The moment the second of you finishes. The report is optional, after that.

01. The library

Reading for the problem you're actually having.

Short, careful pieces on the things couples run into most, each one grounded in real sources and free to read. Pick the problem and start there.

Browse the libraryAll 10 pieces, free
01When the same argument keeps coming backWhy you keep having the same fightRead the piece02When you feel like roommates instead of partnersWhat growing apart actually looks like before it's a breakupRead the piece03When one of you is carrying more of the loadThe invisible work one partner ends up carryingRead the piece04When money turns into a fightWhy money fights aren't really about moneyRead the piece

02. The store

Tools for the two of you.

Three things to use at the table, and none of them need the quiz: a deck of questions worth asking, a guide to one hard conversation, and a journal you fill in together.

Visit the storePrintable, delivered as a download
Conversation cards$14Printable deck, 48 cardsOne hard conversation$9Printable guide, 6 to 8 pagesThe guided couples journal$17Printable journal, 12 weeks

About Amivoix

For the things you only say quietly.

Most relationship advice is written for everyone, so it fits no one exactly. Amivoix exists so two people can read something that is actually about them: accurate, private, even-handed, and plain enough to talk about over dinner. The name comes from the French à mi-voix, in a hushed voice.

More about AmivoixNot therapy or professional advice.